Naughty N'awlins 2023 Speakers
Here are just some of the speakers for the upcoming Naughty N’awlins. We have the largest lifestyle education program in the country. Last year, we had 52 classes and 36 different speakers. This year we have over 45 speakers signed up and over 100 classes submitted so far.
The classes talk about how to deal with jealousy, consent, how to prevent STIs, how to have better communication, the ins, and outs of Bondage, flogging, rope play, dower exchange, contracts prior to play, massage for couples, Tantra courses, and much more.
Most of our classes (50+) are free and included in the cost of your convention package. We do offer some intensive hands-on classes that have an additional fee, for those that are interested in advanced workshops from some of our most experienced professionals. Normally, these speakers charge hundreds to thousands of dollars to take one of their courses, but at Naughty N’awlins, you can get some of their advanced classes at a discount while at our event.
We will be announcing more speakers soon and will have a full schedule in just a couple of weeks. When you include the Bourbon St parties, pool parties, nightly erotic theme balls, the Sexual Freedom Ball, our Naughty Piano Bar, comedy shows, and top entertainment, our event is truly a bargain and worth every penny for such an amazing experience.
Here are just a few of our speakers:
Beth Darling
Darling (aka Beth Liebling) is a former divorce lawyer who flipped and is now an internationally recognized Love Life & Work Coach, Author, Radio Host, and Speaker. She offers private coaching for individuals & couples, as well as private and public workshops. Beth authored the award-winning/Amazon Best Selling book, Love and Laughter: Sexy (Meaningful) Fun for Everyone, and her latest book, The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive is now available on Amazon. A former ESPN Houston radio host, Beth Darling currently hosts the Come With Us Podcast. Learn more and check out her video on demand BethDarling.com
For speaking engagements or 1:1 coaching opportunities, email her directly: Beth@Darlingway.com.
Bianca from Everybody Swing
Bianca's passion for dancing started at the young age of three, and in 2008, she stumbled upon a pole dance class and the rest is history. Since then, she has been sharing her expertise and teaching both men and women the sensual art of dance, including pole dance, lap dance, burlesque, and strip tease. In addition to teaching, Bianca also creates captivating choreography for competitions, parties, and performances, catering to both large and intimate audiences.
She is the headliner of a Lifestyle dance troupe “Bianca’s Bombshells” and her skills have earned her a placement in the prestigious PSO Competition in Seattle, and she continues to perform and teach at various venues including many lifestyle events throughout the United States, Canada and Mexico.
Brian from Front Porch Swingers
Brian is the co-host of the lifestyle podcast, Front Porch Swingers. He and his partner, Brenna, have spent the last 5 years sharing their swinging and hotwife journey with their listeners in the hopes of showing how "normal" and healthy non-monogamous relationships can be. Within the last two years, he and Brenna have also developed upscale hotwife events that are thrown in cities across the United States.
In addition, Brian is a proud pansexual man who advocates for non-straight men in the lifestyle.
Mark Casey
Mark Casey is a Somatica® trained Sex & Relationship coach, author, and Tantra teacher. He provides one-to-one intimacy coaching with singles and couples. He is the author of 'Living Your Erotic Potential' available on Amazon/Audible. With over ten years of personal experience in the Lifestyle, he has keen insight into the opportunities and challenges Swinging offers. His mission is to help his Lifestylers enjoy more while avoiding the pitfalls. From his home base in Boulder, Colorado, he provides coaching and mentoring both face-to-face and via Zoom.
Den Temin
Den Temin is a passionate Toronto sexologist, board-certified by the American College of Sexologists with over 20 years of experience in the fields of gender and human sexuality. Not a newbie in the community Den specializes in teaching seminars & workshops catered specifically to lifestyle couples. Den has participated as the official sexologist in more than 20 lifestyle cruises, and conventions in the USA, Canada, Latin America, & Europe.
Dragonfly
Pure Orgasmic Love offers experiential body-based education. Allowing you to learn and discover your pleasure in and out of the bedroom. Dragonfly is an internationally recognized Somatically Trained Sexologist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatica® Relationship, Sex & Intimacy Coach, Consensual Non-Monogamy Coach, and Advocate for Women's Empowerment for Pleasure. She's the owner and primary educator at Pure Orgasmic Love, offering various ways to connect and learn with sex-positive, evidence-based education.
Dragonfly focuses on women and partnerships living consensually non-monogamous, guiding you to a passionately deeper connection with yourself and your partners. Allowing you to experience new techniques to access more profound sex and intimacy. She emphasizes experiential learning through body awareness, communication, anatomy, and other body-based teachings about relationships and sex. Her Sexological Bodyworker certification uniquely allows her to offer hands-on genital touch for education, trauma release, integrative healing, and overall pleasure.
Her goal is to help you discover and accept your most authentically erotic, sensual, and loving selves to live an orgasmic life filled with pleasures you were born to live. You can experience more pleasure and learn with Dragonfly at her one-of-a-kind, erotic, inclusive PleasurePLAY™ Retreats and PleasurePlayshops™, a private session at larger conventions/events, working with her long-term as a Private Client, or within the POL App (coming soon), as well as listening to some intimate conversations on the Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast w/Dragonfly.
A note from Dragonfly... "I'm tingling with full-body excitement to connect with you at this year's Naughty N'awlins! If you see me, please say hi and introduce yourself. I'm really looking forward to those delicious hugs-w/consent, of course!" Orgasmic hugs from my heart & genitals to yours…
E William
Certified Primal Health Coach Retired Zoologist E is the partner of Dragonfly and sexual nutrition coach at Pure Orgasmic Love. He looks at human health from an evolutionary perspective. He focuses on supporting your biology so you can balance your sex hormones, drop excess weight, reduce pain, and increase energy and stamina. Look, Feel, and Perform Better is his mission for you.
Dr. Stoehr
Dr. Stoehr is a Board Certified Gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain and sexual dysfunction. She has additional interests in narcotic-free surgery and the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyles. She is passionate about making sure that people in the LS are able to obtain the highest levels of healthcare without fear of prejudice or bias. This led her to public speaking engagements in both medical arenas and the public to educate them about the LS and how to approach medical care within this unique setting.
Dee & Ladyee Vee
Dee H. Black and Laydee Vee (they/them) are no strangers to the Sexual Positive Community. As a married couple of over fifteen years, “Dee & Vee” has spent over a decade in a non-traditional relationship together. Through their hard work and dedication to the lifestyle, Dvpassion Love Experience was formed in 2009. By sharing this personal knowledge and expertise, Dee & Vee has helped hundreds of other couples and individuals to confront the challenges and obstacles they were facing in their own bedrooms.
Dee & Vee are not only able to relate to those they coach but they provide a blueprint to allow people to follow their passions for greater love experiences. Dvpassion’s consultations are highly sought after, and the business has grown to include individual and couple’s coaching, workshops, public speaking, seminars, a national radio show, and a sex-positive clothing line. Dee and Vee were also featured on CNN's “This is Life w/ Lisa Ling” in November 2019 and have been seminar speakers for Exxxotica since 2017. Vee has also released her book “The Bi in Me: The Dichotomy of Laydee Vee” which is sold on Amazon. Their motto is “Your nut is valuable and your Orgasm Matters” as they each strive to make sex great again.
George Kallas
George Kallas, Psy.D., Ph.d. licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist. My doctoral research was on the lifestyle of swingers.
John & Jacky Melfi
John & Jackie Melfi, owners of the world-renowned coletteclubs.com and Openlove101.com, have 35 years of combined experience in the art of consensual non-monogamy. They coach couples and singles pertaining to the intricacies of open relationships. Jackie Melfi is an award-winning author of, "Swingers Lifestyle: The Questions You Are Afraid to Ask."
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Lauren Hayes- Swinging Lifestyle Coach
Lauren is a co-active trained coach with Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. She and her husband have been active swingers and in the lifestyle for nearly five years so she has a deep understanding of the complexity and dynamics. Every ENM relationship evolves in a unique direction and we are no different. I love guiding people through the creation and adventure of their own ENM experience.
Pashur
One of the pioneers in modern body painting, award-winning artist Pashur has been body painting for 27 years. He is known for sexy and fun innovative designs and his artistic influence can be seen throughout the industry all over the world.
His list of accolades and achievements is surreal. Pashur has body painted at The Playboy Mansion numerous times and has been a guest on Playboy Radio’s SWING show. Pashur has created body paint costumes for Cirque du Soleil.
He was featured on the hit SyFy Channel TV Show, "FaceOff" as a body paint expert, and as a consultant, helped develop the hit body paint competition television show Skin Wars. Pashur's body paint video on BuzzFeed was their most-watched video of 2016 with over 23 million views. In 2017, Depeche Mode asked Pashur to feature his body painting work on their Facebook page.
Thrillist L.A. chose Pashur as having the coolest job in Los Angeles. He has been a special guest on the most popular TV shows in Japan, Portugal, and the States. Pashur has been published in hundreds of magazines around the world including the cover of Rolling Stone magazine, has painted for feature films, numerous music videos and television shows, and body painted in over 20 countries. Pashur has body painted at the biggest events in the world such as Mardi Gras, and Fantasy Fest - where he has won several of his numerous body painting awards.
Pashur has written and published several face and body painting books and is sponsored by several top body paint brands. Pashur has fun body painting and loves to make it fun for the people he paints. Pashur currently resides in Los Angeles, California (Burbank) where he continues to innovate and break boundaries with his body painting art. Pashur’s impressive Client List includes Rolling Stone Magazine, Playboy, Nikki Minaj, Penthouse, Cirque du Soleil, Smirnoff, WWE, MTV, VH1, Kraken Rum, Desire Resorts, Comedy Central, Spike TV, TNT, Toyota, Brooks & Dunn, E Entertainment, Prius, Wrangler, Air China to name a few.
Dorisa King
Dorisa King is the owner of Yoni Steam 412, Pittsburgh's premier Vaginal Steaming Spa, Women's Wellness Instructor, Hula Hoop Master Coach, and Blood Type Diet Nutritionist.
Jay Ferron
I am a master at the sensuous art of violet wands, getting the violet wand orgasm, and the smiles and sighs of pleasure from slow, sensual violet wand play. If you're not into pain and prefer the squeals of pleasure, my style is for you. I love to teach and demonstrate how to maximize your violet wand play by combining various violet wand tools and accessories with many sensual techniques. I have been a board member of the TES.
I am a certified wand demonstrator and member of the Violet Wand Guild.
Traveling Fool/Jay travels the world for work, and plays, demos, and teaches at many kink events. NEWS I now have a podcast recording of a class I did at Frolicon, the podcast is on KinkyCast.com 233 - Traveling Fool - Violet Wands
Some nice quotes about my teaching style... "If for no other reason, I would recommend BDSM Writers Con 2015 Con just to see Traveling Fool’s demo with the violet wand, his use of electricity on the human body is like watching Michelangelo painting." Martin, Philadelphia One of the authors at BDSM Writers wrote: "Speaking of the violet wand, our demo man, international violet wand master, Travelling Fool, gave many attendees a Very Good Time from the device.
Alisha Fisher
Alisha Fisher is an internationally award-winning speaker, a Ph.D. student in Human Sexuality, and a Relationship Coach who has been immersed in the fields of Sexology and Anti-Sexual Violence for over a decade. She is passionate about helping individuals and couples create more fulfilling relationships with themselves and others.
By combining research and trauma-informed practices to sexual connection, Alisha provides valuable insights and advice through her speaking engagements, workshops, and coaching sessions. To learn more about Alisha’s services, connect with her on her website InspireIntimacy.com or on her social media accounts.
Master Don
Master Don and his wife have been involved in BDSM for over 30 years. He has run a dungeon for over 4 years in California. Currently, he is focused on teaching new people the ins and out of BDSM, as well as making and selling high-quality bondage toys, floggers, restraints, and apparel.
Phoenix Phyyre: Swinky Life
Katherine Blyth & George Myo & Deb Malone
Seasoned Bi-coastal Swinger Party organizers ranging from small intimate gatherings to blow-out extravaganzas!
Kiley G
Kiley is a content creator, ENM podcaster, sex worker, and volunteer advocate for the sexual freedom community. Kiley is a millennial swinger with a bold and cheeky attitude.
Dominus & Mxen
Dominus (John Lacarbiere, III) is a creator using many arts to express his love and experiences with the world; some of those art forms are spoken word/poetry, creative writing, photography and videography, visual art, and performance. A naturalist at heart and by profession, he travels the globe spending time documenting nature and leading meditations.
In kink spaces, he is a professional top/dominant, a sensualist, as well a hedonist. He uses love as his motivation for all things done on this journey and allows the spirit to guide him through all things.
Mxen (Synamin Vixen) is a Domme, burlesque performer, and community healer. She has more than 25 years of dance experience locally and internationally. She has been studying Afro-Diasporic herbal and traditional care practices, reiki, BDSM, and sex doula work for the past 5 years, with Sex Doula certification from NBDA and Reiki I certification from Heaven On Earth Reiki. Her specialties are sensation and impact play.
BondageNexus
Certified in NLP and clinical hypnotherapy Facilitated a monthly rope bondage group for 11 years Performed Shibari circus sets for Trauma for 7 years (think Cirque du Soleil with rope bondage) Lectured each semester for 6 years at the Ohio State University (rope bondage and fetishes as they applied to a human sexuality class)
Susan Prinsloo
Susan is passionate about showing up in the world as a more present, kind, aware, and sensual human being and helping others to do the same. She draws from a diverse background as Social Worker, IT Project Manager, Montessori Teacher, Boudoir and Erotic Photographer as well as Sex and Relationship Coach.
She is a seasoned swinger with zero judgment, and empathy with all the challenges couples and individuals in and out of the lifestyle face when it comes to sex, saying "No" and saying "Yes, I want that please!".
Shannon Burton
Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she) is a certified sex coach and educator specializing in nonmonogamy, kink, and orgasm. In addition to their sex-positive book club and online Orgasm School, they also offer monthly classes and private coaching in New Orleans.
Polly Popjoy
Polly Popjoy is a well-rounded entertainer who does drag, burlesque, comedy, and kink. She has been performing on and working behind stages for over 15 years. She loves to spread joy wherever she goes and has a passion for sharing knowledge too.
The GOOD TJ
TheG00dTJ is the Subject Matter Expert on the Single Males role in the Swinging and Shared Wife Lifestyle. His honorable approach to these two lifestyles has drawn audiences from throughout the United States and around the world wanting to attend his events and bring erotic fantasies to sensual realities with respectful single gentlemen. He has a growing number of Ethical Non-Monogamous Couples who support his events and enjoy being able to create intimate encounters with single men who are gentlemen first and foremost who represent themselves with a touch of class and sophistication.
His motto for the Men “We are more than just what’s between our legs”, casts a positive light on single men who live their lives on THEIR TERMS when creating pleasurable connections with Swing Couples and Shared Wife Lifestyle Couples. He holds a Master’s Degree in Management and Leadership, a Bachelor of Science in Social Work and Counseling both of which help him manage his organization (TheG00dFellaz) and interact with diverse sexual populations. He is the host with the most in creating Swing and Shared Wife Lifestyle Events where he creates a SAFE SPACE where women are empowered to embrace their Inner Sexual Goddess on Their Terms.
The men attending are there to support, encourage and celebrate the women as they embrace their sexuality with men who are not their husbands.
Tiffany Anton, LCSW
With 23 years of experience as a clinical psychotherapist, Tiffany Anton, LCSW specializes in sex and intimacy. She has been featured on Open Love video casts, provided professional training to other clinicians interested in expanding their knowledge in sexual therapy, and presented at a variety of cancer conferences.
In 2016, she was a TEDx presenter: 'I Love Pleasure'. She has a podcast titled 'Tiffany Turned On'. Tiffany sees a variety of clients with issues such as erectile dysfunction, low libido/libido discrepancies, genital pain, kink/alternative lifestyles, and more.
Ed & Phoebe Swinger
At Swinger University, we bring you a unique, engaging, and quality podcast experience that explores the world of open relationships. Our content is suitable for anyone interested in exploring their sensuality and sexuality, regardless of their relationship with swinging. We strive to provide concise, educational, and entertaining content that improves and enriches relationships.
From sexual health and lifestyle advice to sexy experiences and the challenges we all face; we cover it all.
As passionate sex-positive educators, swingers, and advocates, we believe love is infinite and swinging is more than sex. Swinging fuels adoration, connection, and communication with your partner, community belonging, long-term friendships, the pleasurable discovery of self and each other, plus the memories of your adventures together. We are dedicated to conducting thorough research to curate the best information for you, presented in high-quality audio and video.
We aim to eliminate the need to fast-forward through our episodes by delivering only the most important and relevant information. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or a seasoned pro, we have something to offer.
Your Vagesty
Your Vagesty is a practicing Domme located in Memphis, Tennessee, honing her craft on willing submissives for the past decade. By sharing experiences and teaching you to share in the pleasures she practices, Your Vagesty hopes to enflame you with the same passions. Dominance and submission is not a black and white line in Your Vagesty’s world.
She believes a person must understand both to serve the one they love. Gentle FemDom is her happy place, not only as a purveyor of fine sex toys but as a practice.
The combination of nurture and discipline in the perfect mix incites countless pleasures and forms the strongest of bonds. Whichever side of the / you find yourself on, dear reader, Your Vagesty wishes you the best of fortunes and offers this advice:
Remember the ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign on the hotel door.
Never ‘play’ on a first meeting.
Believe people when they show you who they are.
Make it safe. Keep it sane. Consent is sexy and always 100% necessary.
Sunshine Asis
Sunshine Asis is a Nudist and Lifestyle Advocated known as a free-spirited entrepreneur, business executive, and passionate traveler. She is the owner of Sunshine Asis LLC and the host and content creator of "Adult Konversation with Sunshine" and "Sex Talk with Sunshine" which air weekly, alternate weeks. She provides insight, motivation, open-minded thinking, and a positive perspective to her listeners, viewers, and fans across the county as well as abroad.
Her popularity and unique perspective attract the attention of many alternative “Lifestyle” groups and Swingers across the country that requests her presence and “high-spirited energy” at events, venues, clubs, and parties. The broad demand for her perspective and presence motivated Sunshine to launch her company in 2018. Sunshine Asis LLC promotes, hosts, MCs, and highlights events, as well as counseling for “Alternative Lifestyle Living” and “Naturalist Living” with a focus on safety, respect, and communication. Sunshine’s warm, fun, and outgoing personality enhances her natural ability to make people feel comfortable and confident while her experiences and sensuality make her stand out from the crowd.
Sunshine takes great pleasure and pride in “spreading a little shine” everywhere she goes and leaves a lasting impression on everyone she encounters along the way.
Mark & Angel Borg
We are a sexy new raw lifestyle podcast, and we are a happily married crazy-in-love couple who ask you to join our journey into the swinging lifestyle. You can listen to or watch our audio podcast or live video podcast of MiamiSwings on our website www.MiamiSwings.com
Cliff Rees
Cliff's first profession was many years of teaching meditation to thousands of people all over the world (Iran, India, Philippines, Switzerland, US). He began studying Tantra in 1998 with Alan Lowen, is a graduate of Alan's 2-year Body, Heart & Soul Training, and assisted Alan at dozens of week-long Tantra courses in Europe.
