FIND YOUR IDEAL FANTASY
Do you get a little stumped when you're asked what your fantasy is? Or maybe you've already fulfilled a fantasy and now you're on to the next adventure. Here's a quiz that will help you figure out which fantasy you should try next!
1. How interested are you in bondage?
A - Not my thing
B - Curious but depends on the situation.
C - Bring it on
2. What would turn you on the most?
A - A threesome with you, your partner, and a person you both truly enjoy.
B - A sexy role-playing scene that leads to hot sex
C - Being a dominant or submissive in a BDSM scene and witnessing your partner's agony & ecstasy.
3. Choose a toy.
A - Double Dildo
B - Handcuffs
C - Flogger
4. How do you feel about being watched by others?
A - Put us in the spotlight!
B - I'd rather keep it private
C - Only if I/We can be in charge
5. Do you like dressing in a particular way to get you in the mood.
A - Nope, I just want to be naked
B - Yes! Get me in character!
C - Only if it benefits my pain/pleasure.
6. Would you watch your partner with someone else?
A - Yes! That would be so hot!
B - Maybe, it would depend on the scenario.
C - No, they are MY sex toy.
7. Do you like the idea of "pleasurable punishment?"
A - Not so much
B - If we're going to suit a specific scenario, then yes.
C - Absolutely- BEND OVER!
8. Choose a place to play:
A - In a sexy, well-lit playroom with sexy people all around all having fun as well.
B - A beautiful hotel room you've never been to before, with a collection of toys at hand, blindfolds, and handcuffs, where you can play out anything you want.
C - A dungeon, with the best equipment you can have: St. Andrew's crosses, cages, and hooks, and eyelets for suspension ropes and bars.
9. Pick a position:
A - Eiffel Tower
B - Standing Missionary Against a Wall
C - Bent over with hands and ankles bonded together.
What Kind of Fantasy Should You Try?
Mostly As: Group Play
Whether you're interested in a little voyeurism/exhibitionism, a threesome, cuckolding or finding a sexy unicorn to play with, try adding another partner to the mix and see how it plays out. Be sure to talk to your partner about boundaries ahead of time, keep an open mind and have fun!
Mostly Bs: Create a Scene/Experience
You're likely to be stimulated by new things and experiences. So perhaps a little roleplaying is something you should try. Or maybe you want to know what you look like on camera? Record yourselves doing the deed and watch it together after (use all the precautions necessary). Maybe some lingerie or a Naughty costume would help change things up and create a whole new fantasy to enjoy together.
Mostly Cs: Power Exchange
You thrive off either the feeling of being dominant and in control, or you melt at the idea of being at their mercy. Grab your bondage, floggers, ten units, and leashes and experiment with what it's like to be the one in power and the one in control. See what it's like to tease and edge until they beg for more. Be sure you discuss safety and boundaries, and be respectful.
