The Unusual Power of Masturbation
May is officially Masturbation Month! The idea was created by the Good Vibrations retail store in San Francisco following the firing of U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders in 1994 for suggesting that information about masturbation should be included in sex education courses. That’s because this simple act of self-pleasure is treated as one of the most controversial parts of human nature.
The Ancient Greeks thought male masturbation was a natural remedy to frustration when women were unavailable. Men were depicted masturbating on vases and frescoes and it was widely featured in comedy. This liberalism did not extend to women, who were thought of as modest and unable to attain sexual pleasure without the introduction of semen to their bodies. (source)
One of the precepts of Tantra is that a man should refrain from ejaculation in order to provide a better experience for a woman during lovemaking. This stigma surrounding ejaculation may explain, in part anyway, why masturbation eventually became a forbidden act that required atonement — at least for men. On one hand (pun intended), it was and can even still be seen as taboo, self-indulgent, possibly evil in some beliefs. And on the other, it’s the basis of the entire sex film, sex toy, and web-camming industries. We choose to see it in a very good light. Masturbation is fail-proof pregnancy prevention, a great way to get to know your body and sexual preferences, and allows you the chance to fantasize and tap into your erotic side. It’s something that can be done alone, in front of your partner, by your partner, on your partner…you get the idea.
Masturbating is like taking a mini-vacation, it creates moments of bliss and ecstasy that help relieve stress. Other health benefits include:
Glowing Skin - Touching yourself down there can also improve your skin. Climaxing can lead to an increase in blood flow to the skin, which opens up your blood vessels. For some, this can result in slightly rosy cheeks and that amazing glow. The chemicals released when you get freaky can also help reduce inflammation, making zits and rashes less noticeable. Do it for your skin.
Stress Release - When you touch yourself, the feel-good hormones released like oxytocin and dopamine, give you a rush of pleasure. If you’re feeling anxious or stressed, this rush of pleasure can act as a distraction and take your mind off whatever is bothering you.
Improved Sleep - Your body releases several different chemicals during you-time including prolactin, which aids with sleep. Get ready for some serious shut-eye.
Relieve stress. Especially when you're feeling really pent up, masturbation is a healthy (and fun!) way to work out the energy - and feel super-satisfied afterward.
Reduce the risk of a poor decision. "Horny brain" is totally a real thing for a lot of people, and being able to reduce your arousal can reduce your risk of doing something you might regret later.
Relieve menstrual cramps. If you menstruate, you know how killer those cramps can be. Masturbation can help relieve your pain with its heady cocktail of pleasure hormones.
The way you masturbate is incredibly unique! Some prefer using their hands, some prefer toys, some like lots of lube, others need to watch something, some like it while they lay down, others will do it in the shower. There’s no wrong or right way and it’s very indicative of your sexual preferences; the thoughts you think while you’re pleasuring yourself say a lot about what turns you on and how you like to get off. Here are some things we like to keep around for some self-pleasuring:
Promescent Lube - We gave out bottles of their slippery Ultra Long-Lasting Silicone lube at Naughty N’awlins 2020 because we truly love their selection of amazing lubes to suit all needs. Try their Buzzing Female Arousal Gel which adds buzzing sensations and increases touch sensitivity during intimacy.
Bad Dragon Toys - Some of the coolest dildos, masturbators, and accessories in the market! Every Bad Dragon dildo and masturbator is hand-poured and ships from here in the USA with the highest quality US-made, platinum-cured, body-safe silicones available.
hi®Massager - The hi® personal wellness system is a highly effective way to help women restore their pelvic floor health.
Lovense - Interactive sex toys that allow couples to have long-distance sex. Connect each sex toy to an internet-connected device using their app.
Naughty Ways to Self-Pleasure
Virtual Parties - Come hang out, meet sexy people in the lifestyle, and allow yourself to be pleasured by the Naughtiness that happens at our Saturday night parties. Live video interactive on a safe, uncensored platform where you can watch anyone you want while having your camera on or off. Come play games and enjoy interactivities that usually lead to something very Naughty.
Be a Voyeur or Exhibitionist at Naughty N’awlins - Our signature annual event is known for its state-of-the-art playrooms that create the perfect setting for being an exhibitionist with your partner or a shameless voyeur that watches and enjoys every moment.
