MODERN DAY SEXTING (beyond dick pics)

Hopefully the connections you make through your Naughty Membership will lead so very interesting, very hot conversations.  What better time to master the art of sexting (aka "phone sex")? If you're not experienced and you don't know where to start or what to say, here are some our suggestions along with example to ignite a super hot digital conversation. 

Consent Still Applies
Just because this is a digital thing doesn't mean consent goes out the door. Be sure your partner is free to have this kind of conversation, that they're in a place where they feel comfortable to talk and they're ok with receiving pictures and video if it leads to that. 
Example: "Hey you! Wanna spend a little phone time together? I have a pic I wanna send you—for your eyes only."

Ease Into It
Don't just come barging in with brazen, dirty talk. Flirt a little, tell them you've been thinking of them and exactly what you've been thinking about. Think of it as digital foreplay. 
Example: "I've been thinking about the last time we saw each other. That was so hot when you____ (fill in the blank)"

Set The Stage
Now that you got the conversation started, you can drift into the fantasy. Tell them where you'd like to be with them right now and them tell them what you'd do to them there. 
Example: "If I was in the kitchen with you right now, I'd press you up against the wall and____(fill in the blank)" 

Be Descriptive
If you're not going to send pics or have a video chat, be as descriptive as possible with your words. As cliche as it sounds, telling them what you're wearing is a good start. Describe to them what you're feeling, how you would touch them or how you're touching yourself right now.  
Example: "I would bite your neck and slowly start working my hands down to ____." 

Recreate a Hot Moment 
Do you recall a steamy session you've had with this person? Talk about it and relive it by telling them what you liked about it, how you were feeling in that moment and adding some new details you would have done. 
Example: "Remember that time in the car when I was____. If that were us right now, I'd ____." 

Ask Questions
Get them to unleash their sexy thoughts. Ask them what they're thinking about, ask them to describe something they want to try or have them give you a detailed description of their wildest sexual fantasies. 
Example: "What's a fantasy that'd you'd want to explore with me?"

Talk About Specific Body Parts (beside the obvious) 
There are so many sexy part of your body besides the obvious. Talk about your thighs, your neck, your collarbone or the small of your back. 
Example: "I want to lay on my stomach as you kiss me from between my shoulder blades all the way down my spine to my tailbone."  

Compliments Go a Long Way
Tell them what you find sexy about them. Whether it's a physical attribute or something they do to you that drives you wild. Telling them what you like gives them` positive feedback that builds confidence and makes them feel comfortable to continue doing what you like (which works greatly in your favor). 
Example: "I think the freckles on your back are so sexy" "I love the way you use your hips to _____" 

Be Playful
Since you aren't physically together, tease a little and make them yearn to be near you. Tell them how your body is feeling right now, tease them about what you're wearing (or not wearing), or send them a pic that shows just enough, but not everything. 
Example: "If you could feel how wet/hard I am right now, you'd go crazy." 

Build Anticipation
Give them some ideas for the next time you're together. Describe to them what you's like to do and get them excited to see you again.  
Example: "Next time I see you, I'm going to ____." 

Speak Your Mind 
This is all very mental, so use your imagination and go wild. Tell them your naughtiest, wildest, dirtiest thoughts and don't hold back. If you're thinking of them getting you from behind, going down on you, having in you in a certain position or playing with a certain toy or bondage, tell them. Give them a nice mental picture. 
Example: "I want you to tie my hands behind my back while you go down on me so I can't touch you the entire time." 

Be Authentic
Don't be something you're not. Be true to what you like, especially if you actually get physical with this person. If you don't like anal, don't tease it in sexting, if you don't like being called things like "whore" or "bad girl" in the real bedroom, don't bring it to the sexting realm. 

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