NAUGHTY WAYS TO BEAT HOLIDAY BLUES
It's been quite a year and now we're in the holiday season. For most of us, this year might be a little quieter, more reserved and a bit uneventful. But if you're lucky enough to be with your partner this holiday season, you can perhaps use this time to strengthen your relationship and explore new ways of igniting the flame between you. If you're feeling a little down and just "blah" this season, you are not alone and we have some great ideas for you that can easily do at home and with your partner to beat the holiday blues.
Give each other a sexy massage
Baby, it's cold outside... or maybe it's not, either way, get warm & cozy and beat the COVID/holiday blues by treating each other to a sexy at-home massage. Spend an evening worshipping each other's bodies and explore new ways of touching and feeling. Get a great massage oil, light some candles, put on some relaxing music, and add some toys if you want. Giving (and receiving) a massage from your partner is not only an act of kindness, but it's the ultimate foreplay.
Wear lingerie just because
We might be stuck inside but that doesn't mean we have to forget about the arsenal of sexy lingerie we might have hiding in our closets. This season, if you and your partner have the house to yourselves, put on some lingerie for no reason at all other than to seduce your partner. Put it on while they're doing something else and then just go about your business like you have no idea what's going on. They'll soon understand that you're ready for action.
Join a virtual party
Not meeting new people bumming you out? Check out the couples and new people you'll meet on Naughty Chat on Saturday nights. Virtual Swing Party has been hosting online dance and play parties since the beginning of COVID with different themes every week, interactive games, occasional entertainment and people from all over the US to meet. You can join these virtual parties by becoming a Naughty Member and then RSVPing to the virtual events you see on our site. Grab your partner, put on something hot, turn on your webcams, and get ready for the future of swinging.
Plan your next vacation
Sometimes the best thing to do to get through the present is to plan toward the future. Start planning your next couple's vacation! Desire Cruises will be heading toward exotic international locations in 2021 & 2022 or escape to Temptation Resort next year for a relaxing yet Naughty time or plan on a Temptation Cruise for 2022. Planning your vacation may seem farfetched if you've been stuck inside all 2020, but planning for a fun, adult-only, sexy vacation can be a huge mood booster.
Learn a new position
Crack open the Kama Sutra, head over to Kinkly or just look up different positions, choose a few, and test that baby out! Figure out what it is you want to achieve in this new position: are you looking for more clitoral stimulation? Are you wanting to try more positions standing up? Best positions from behind? Something that feels better for her on top? Or new positions where you can add a third? Discuss what you'd like to do with our partner(s) and find positions that will allow you to achieve your goals.
Get a couple's gift
Instead of worrying about what you can get each other for the holidays, why not save time (and money) and pick something fun and Naughty that you can use together? Whether it's a new vibrator, floggers, a collar or even a sex swing, choose something together and make the true gift the enjoyment you'll have sharing a sexy, exciting experience.
Cuddle up to a new erotic book
Get off your phone! Spend some time getting warm and cozy, and read each other parts of a saucy erotic novel. Pour yourselves a nice drink, put on some cozy PJs (or nothing at all works too) and snuggle up while you take turns leading each other into an erotic fantasy world.
We love:
Mating Season Vol. 1 by Lexi Sylver - Get it HERE
The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by A.N. Roquelaure and Ann Rice - Get it HERE
Make a festive boozy cocktail
Stuck inside? Why not experiment with tasty festive cocktails? Add a little bourbon to your hot chocolate, spike your apple cider with brandy, make a Hot Toddy to beat a winter cold, serve up some buttered rum or anything else that feels right. It's a great time to play with flavors, don't forget to share the recipe with your friends online. CLICK HERE for some great ideas from Food Network.
Start a project
If you're feeling low, it's best to stay busy. Get your mind in the right place by starting a project; start fixing or renovating something in your home, work on a website for your business, or learn something like a language or new skill. Work on something every day to help brighten your holidays.
Random acts of kindness
We need kindness in this world more than ever. During this time when we're stuck inside, while we're working on our goals and trying to make the best of things, be sure to take some time and extend some kindness to others. Whether it's purging your closet (you know you have to do it) and donating old clothes, calling an old relative and catching up with them, sending a friend a care package or helping someone out that you know needs it, you will be amazed how effective just a tiny bit of love and kindness can do for someone. And just a little tip: don't do it for social media, do it from the heart, do it because you care and do it because you mean it.
